I use the same exact Zaino products (including sealant) on my bike that I do on my car. As for approved bike wash? as in soap? that's complete rubbish. Use any quality soap (Zaino, Mothers, Meguiars , etc.) you would on a car an you will be OK.
As for your wheels and tires I agree with the others. Leave the tires alone and as for the carbon wheels probably just wash them and little else.
As for your wheels and tires I agree with the others. Leave the tires alone and as for the carbon wheels probably just wash them and little else.