I have used cheap cycling shorts (bellweather, giant bicycles, descente) in the past which I was comfortable with but recently got a Nalini (bib) short to try bibs. The chamois feels like a diaper to me, very big and padded. Did I choose the wrong one? I got it online so I didn't try it first, I'm not going to return it. It doesn't seem to conform to my body, but its the correct size.