Laf!
When I tell people they should try fixed it's only because I rode my flip flop SS for a while and sometimes I think, honestly, only because thats how it was set up when I brought it home.
Then I tried fixed and hated it, in fact, if you search my posts, you can probably find the thread where I rant about how fast I'm going to flip that thing over and forget that archaic contraption on the other side even exists. But I stuck with it and I couldn't be more grateful for my resolve.
It seems so common in these forums to here the same story: Rode SS to get confident on a bike in a general sense, tried fixed, and didn't go back.
If you love riding SS great, I don't think less of SS riders. In fact, if you search "NY bike messengers are crazy" on you tube you will see some incredibly skilled NY messengers riding SS in a very cool video.
I just feel like people who ride SS are missing out only because the skills that you can work on and improve are more plentiful on a fixed gear. Me, crazy as everone around here calls me (we don't have many fixies where I live) I ride brakeless and today, for instance, I found myself frantically trying to make a light and, when it turned yellow, I leaned forward and came to a skidding stop instinctively and safely. It's just a feeling you get on a bike that isn't available by any other means.
It's a trend that I have noticed in others across all kinds of hobbies. All one needs is to improve at what it is they have undertaken and it will keep them motivated. But if they stagnate then they tend to get bored and move on to something else. So the assumption that many of us fixie guys make when someone says they don't like fixed riding is that you simply haven't given yourself a fair shake. It's hard at first, but the moment it becomes easier you pour more into it and pretty soon it's natural. Almost like you've learned a second language.
I guess what I'm saying is that riding fixed is involved and challenging in a way that SS riding isn't. And maybe it is my personality that won't let me enjoy a hobby in an idle fashion. When I like to do something it consumes me and, after riding fixed, SS became boring.
I don't think anyone can claim that fixed is "better" but just a matter of taste. What I know about myself is, if fixed riding simply didn't exist, I wouldn't ride nearly as much as I do.
Now, I am 26 and 10 years ago I underwent a full ACL reconstruction. It doesn't bother me at all now but I do know that someday it is very possible that I might not be able to do it anymore. And the thought of that day will haunt me until the very last.