JT, it is and isn't. we're having a great time. she's moving out of her house and i offered for her to move in and she accepted. so as of 3/31 i will have a new roomie (more than a roomie). if it is possible to be casual AND cohabitate, i think we'll pull it off.jtolleson said:Dude, this sounds serious! Good for you. I'm all for love, sex, talking, and all things in between.