My neighbor is a nice guy. Yuppie, early 50s, has an expensive bike, is in good shape, probably rides around 4,000 miles per year including some big organized rides, etc. When I moved into the neighborhood two years ago he got super excited and is always inviting me on rides. I’ve ridden with him twice and here’s the thing: he’s sketchy as hell. I can’t relax at all around him because he’s twitchy, he can’t hold a line, his braking is all wrong, etc. I also don’t like the choices he makes in terms of routes and how he rides around cars, etc. In addition, in the last year he has crashed THREE times, two of them have landed him in the hospital. He’s got two kids and a wife. My honest opinion is that he should find another hobby. He’s nice a guy but I don’t want to ride with him again. What are your thoughts? Should I have an intervention? Should I be honest with him? Or just keep avoiding him and making excuses?