I love it. I ride by myself 99.9% of the time. You can set off just when you want without having to wait for anyone, ride where you want, as hard (or easy) as you want and you don't have to put up with all the break-downs that others seem to always have. The more people there are on a ride, the more annoying silly problems you have to endure like -
"Can you wait, I have -
- a flat tire."
- a brake rubbing."
- a loose saddle."
- only one shoe."
- no water."
- to pee."
- to make a phone call."
- to take a phone call."
- to shampoo my hamster."
- a pedal falling off."
- something in my eye."
The list of excuses goes on.
1000%
Group riding is ok...but solitary is where its at for me personally.
The road is my confessional at times. I go to face myself, my demons, to clear my head and to often "punish" myself for my dietary transgressions of the previous week. When I ride alone it clears my head...I love it.
When I'm out on the road, I don't want chatter...or hang ups...or limits...or even someone pushing me harder than I should be going that day.
Every group has the talker, the uber competitor and the "hold up" guy. All are annoying as hell and I don't want them ruining my limited cycling time. Like you every ride is different, every day is different. If I say to myself "Well...this ride will be 19mph average over 30 miles or else." I'm setting myself up for irritation. I go out and set my own pace...and it's rarely that same every time.
I have a few buddies that I like to ride with but like you, 99%+ of my riding is alone.