moving soon for work, she hasn't said where yet but I don't think she knows for sure yet either but I get the impression it's not going to be with a few hours drive of here. I've got custody of our 3 year old son but we've been splitting custody almost 50/50 through mutual agreement since February. She wants to talk about it tonight. I'm going to have to put my foot down because I'm the only one that's been there for him since he was born. Any advice for long distance visitation/custody of a toddler? I've got a lawyer but I'd rather not give him any more money. So far we've been able to work things out on our own without much difficulty.