i found the problem
I found the problem I think
first I put in the post then I tried the suggestion of spraying some lube, that didnt work (i didnt just spray it i virtually immersed it in tri flow)
saw some screw messed with that, no difference.
then i decided to get serious, having taken apart many MTB gearing systems i was pretty confidant i could undo/redo what i was about to do.(still with me), and having never worked on a road bike shifter it was time i found out what made the baby tick (or click).i took off the cork and took everything off i could until i needed the "special tool", i made my own special tool and then reached the point where shimano suggested to go no further but there was no change in the functionality. male bravado and arrogance got the better of me so i took the plunge and ...
it was kinda tricky to get the "b" lever off , but it came off with a little jiggling and no force. at this point i looked to see what did what then i tried to put the lever back , no dice., but this is the point where i was able to see what the problem was.
there is a 270 degree return spring which returns the b lever rotator to the appropriate position, there was no tension on the spring so i removed it to re-tension it ...eureka this small piece metal dropped out (1 x 2.5 x 0.75 mm). this is the piece of metal that held the spring taught. on one side i could see it had broken off
then i inspected a while longer and decided i had passed the point of no return so... i popped the front name plate cap off and continued to dissassemble from the front. loosening two bolts and removing the brake lever, this allowed some play in the base center screw which made it possible to replace the "b" lever with ease
the time was 4:50 am and the mind started to get fuzzy so i decided to wait to re-assemble
my conclusion ( which could be false assuming i damaged the shifter on dissassembly)
1) the small metal piece is the culprit
2) if it works the same way as before (having to hold the brake lever back while shifting the b lever) with out the metal piece and spring, they were the problem
3)i am a jackass who lost any possible gaurentee on the part?
thanks for your help folks